Some questions for you to consider:
- How much time do you spend in meetings?
- Are you clear on the purpose of your meetings?
- Is everyone clear on actions and responsibilities arising from
your meetings?
- Can you sing any ABBA songs?
Ok, so perhaps the last question doesn't immediately make sense
when considered alongside the others, but these are the sorts of
issues that we had to ponder last week, when attending a training
course about Positive & Productive Meetings, facilitated by
Helen Sanderson Associates.
The Positive & Productive Meetings process "helps groups
stay focused on their larger purpose and the outcomes of each
meeting. The tools and techniques foster an environment where
people can contribute and feel valued. Creative problem-solving and
collaboration flourish within the structure of the
meeting."
We used some of these tools and techniques in our training:
Creating a welcoming environment
Although we held the training in a hotel meeting room, which
can, even at the best of times, be cold and soul-less, our
facilitator (Michelle) had made the room very welcoming. There was
music on arrival (and at all the break points) to help energise
people. There were posters on the wall ready for the group
exercise, which added colour to the room and were something to keep
you alert. Most importantly (for me!), there were sweets on the
tables - something to touch and enjoy! All the senses were
covered.
Opening and Closing Rounds
We each introduced ourselves to the group and were asked to say
one good thing that had happened - this could be either work or
home related. This helps people to stay connected to the meeting
and creates a positive tone. The closing round gave people an
opportunity to tell the group one thing that they would take away
from the training and use. Everyone had learnt something, and could
see how best to implement it.
Review Meeting Map
Michelle outlined the purpose of the meeting and clarified the
Agenda and timings at the beginning of the day. We also agreed the
ground rules. This is where the ABBA song comes in - we agreed
that, if a mobile phone went off, or someone was seen looking at
their e-mails on their phone during the session, that they would
have to sing an ABBA song! We agreed circumstances (e.g. if a
family member is in hospital or labour) under which phones might
need to be answered, but no-one in the room was in that position.
It was fascinating - I didn't see one person fiddle with their
phone, and no phones went off during the session.
We also agreed the start and finish time of each part of the
day, and that if people were late back from a break, we would start
regardless. At the morning coffee break, only a handful of people
were back on time. As agreed, Michelle started the next session,
and people hurriedly, and a little bit embarrassed, walked in.
After that, and for all the other breaks, people were back on
time.
Timed Talk
We undertook a number of group exercises during the day, but one
of them was Timed Talk:
- A question is posed - in our case it was about how our own team
meetings operate.
- People break into pairs and sit facing each other.
- The first person speaks on the topic for 3 minutes, whilst the
other person sits quietly and listens.
- The second person then speaks on the topic for their 3 minutes
and the other person listens.
- We then shared in a round what we had found out.
Generally, people found this a useful way of giving people space
and a chance to have their say. Some people found it frustrating,
because it's difficult when you want to verbally agree with
something someone has said, or ask them a question. It does,
however, also allow the person listening to refine their thoughts
and consider carefully what they are being told.
Putting it into Practice
Our last exercise of the day was a mock meeting, putting into
practice everything we had learnt during the day, including the
allocation of roles, agenda development, the use of rounds and
meeting evaluation.
There is a lot of tools and techniques that can be used to
achieve Positive and Productive Meetings. What we hope now, is that
everyone goes away from the training and models the behaviours and
approach, drawing on those tools in the right way, and at the right
time.
You might be wondering what all of this has to do with our
journey towards personalisation...Well, in our commitment to embed
person centred thinking tools and approaches, we want everyone
using the techniques, role modelling and showing the way. Our
message is clear - there is no escaping - wherever you sit,
whatever you do, we are heading your way!
We are using different approaches and tactics to reach out to
everybody - this is another one of the ways we are attempting to do
this.